the blog

cause I like to write about it

The Latest

From the Blog

Restriction Is Also Nervous System Dysregulation: Fight, Flight, Freeze & Fawn Jan 03, 2026

 

Binge eating, compulsive eating, emotional eating—these are the behaviors that are stereotyped as chaotic and “out of control” -- they get grouped ...

The January Reset Trap: Last Supper Eating, Fitness Talk, and Food Gifts from Friends Dec 30, 2025

This week’s Full But Not Finished podcast episode answers three listener questions related to New Year resolutions (about eating healthier or "better"...

Nostalgia, High Sensitivity, and Body Image: A Nervous System Perspective Dec 23, 2025

I have a complicated relationship with nostalgia.

Memories and personal history braid together with potent emotional overwhelm; the endings of things...

Intuitive Eating and the Nervous System: A Steady Approach to Thanksgiving (or any big holiday meal) Nov 25, 2025

 Thanksgiving has a way of activating the parts of you that learned to stay hyper-aware of food, appetite, and how others might interpret what you’re ...

How to Break A Food Habit (Without Restricting) Nov 12, 2025

 Every few months, I get a version of the same question:

How do I tell the difference between eating out of habit and eating because I actually nee...

Parts Work, Family Triggers, and Diet Culture Talk Oct 29, 2025

Every time I go home, I'm like: oh this time I'll be the most level headed version of myself. I really believe I've evolved past certain family dynami...

1 2 3 4

Popular Posts

Intuitive Eating and the Nervous System: A Steady Approach to Thank...

Nostalgia, High Sensitivity, and Body Image: A Nervous System Persp...

The January Reset Trap: Last Supper Eating, Fitness Talk, and Food ...

Restriction Is Also Nervous System Dysregulation: Fight, Flight, Fr...

Meet the Founder

About Stefanie Michele

 

I'm a Certified Coach, Occupational Therapist, Intuitive Eating Counselor, and Somatic Experiencing Practitioner IT with a background in Human Development and Mental Health Psychology. Perhaps more importantly, I have boots-on-the-ground experience with recovery from 20+ years of body and food disorder.

A little history: My disordered eating began when I was 15 years old dealing with adolescent strife and hormonal shifts. For the rest of my teens, 20’s, and well into my 30’s, I struggled with bulimia, binge-eating disorder, and orthorexia. The binge-restrict cycle was THE focus of my life for over 20 years and something from which I never, ever thought I would recover.

I thought I was broken.

Somehow during that time, I got married, had 3 girls, and led a pretty normal looking life. There were times I even felt normal — when I was with my friends, snuggling with my babies, or engrossed in a book. But most of the time, I felt ashamed, angry, and completely out of control. I hated my body and lived in fear of gaining weight.

Just before my 40th birthday, I made the decision to challenge diet culture and enlisted the support of a coach to work through my body image, which went hand in hand with food recovery. I did the work, and the work worked.

When I tell you that I’m excited to help you, I mean it. I have laid in bed for days, canceled plans, avoided mirrors, and detached from my authentic self just like you have, and I know there is a different way. You can change your life, and start changing the way women in this world are valued and seen.
xo Stef.

LEARN MORE

 

Sign up for Wednesday Weekly Emails

Every Wednesday, get meaningful emails designed for insight, connection, and clarity into your relationship with food, body, and well-being.

Â