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Appetite vs Mental Hunger: Why You’re Always Thinking About Food Apr 06, 2026

 A lot of people think they’re struggling with self-control when they’re actually underestimating their appetite.

They assume that if they’re still t...

Food Freedom in BED Mar 04, 2026

 

4 Types of Restriction That Drive Binge Eating (It’s Not Just Dieting) Jan 21, 2026

Restriction is one of the most common frameworks we use to explain overeating and binge eating, but it tends to get reduced to one narrow meaning: “ea...

Why We Want to Binge When Our Jeans Feel Tight: 6 Psychological Reasons (and How the Nervous System Is Involved) Jan 13, 2026

 

A client went away for a week and spent most of it in sweatpants. When she got home, she put on jeans, and immediately felt they were tighter.

Her...

Restriction Is Also Nervous System Dysregulation: Fight, Flight, Freeze & Fawn Jan 03, 2026

 

Binge eating, compulsive eating, emotional eating—these are the behaviors that are stereotyped as chaotic and “out of control” -- they get grouped ...

The January Reset Trap: Last Supper Eating, Fitness Talk, and Food Gifts from Friends Dec 30, 2025

This week’s Full But Not Finished podcast episode answers three listener questions related to New Year resolutions (about eating healthier or "better"...

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Meet the Founder

About Stefanie Michele

 

I'm a Certified Coach, Occupational Therapist, Intuitive Eating Counselor, and Somatic Experiencing Practitioner IT with a background in Human Development and Mental Health Psychology. Perhaps more importantly, I have boots-on-the-ground experience with recovery from 20+ years of body and food disorder.

A little history: My disordered eating began when I was 15 years old dealing with adolescent strife and hormonal shifts. For the rest of my teens, 20’s, and well into my 30’s, I struggled with bulimia, binge-eating disorder, and orthorexia. The binge-restrict cycle was THE focus of my life for over 20 years and something from which I never, ever thought I would recover.

I thought I was broken.

Somehow during that time, I got married, had 3 girls, and led a pretty normal looking life. There were times I even felt normal — when I was with my friends, snuggling with my babies, or engrossed in a book. But most of the time, I felt ashamed, angry, and completely out of control. I hated my body and lived in fear of gaining weight.

Just before my 40th birthday, I made the decision to challenge diet culture and enlisted the support of a coach to work through my body image, which went hand in hand with food recovery. I did the work, and the work worked.

When I tell you that I’m excited to help you, I mean it. I have laid in bed for days, canceled plans, avoided mirrors, and detached from my authentic self just like you have, and I know there is a different way. You can change your life, and start changing the way women in this world are valued and seen.
xo Stef.

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